We have talked about the song of submission and what it looks like. But what about the song of dominance? What does a real dominant man look like? As I said in the blog post called The Fake Dom, the way they dress has nothing to do with dominance. If you like the large faced watch, suit, cologne, etc...then admit that you like a smartly dressed man. But it has nothing do with how he exercises control.
The truly dominant man exercises complete discipline over himself. He knows what he wants in a woman should he ever find one and he does not settle. You will not find this man running through women and throwing them on the pile. He might for awhile when he is young but eventually will start to lose interest in the girls who are less than he wants. His communication style is solid and bears the foundation of a stadium. He is a thinker long before he speaks and rarely makes a swan dive off of a cliff into the pool below only to discover on the way down that it is empty.
He knows what makes others tick and how to encourage and uplift and bring out the best in people. He has no need for beating his chest and sounding off because he is too busy being all of the things others only brag about. He has a sound mind and doesn't run to drama. He is generally fun loving but lives by a set of rules himself...and he will expect you to abide by the ones he sets for you.
This man is often found to be most unassuming. That is to say he walks, and talks softly, and carries a big stick. He does not have to demand that you call him anything particular because you will just naturally want to. He is deserving of the title in a way no other man has ever been. You will know when you meet him because your whole world will turn upside down from the moment you meet. You will feel as if you were struck by lightening and walk around in a daze because of how he makes you feel. The true submissive knows
when she meets her counterpart. It has nothing to do with height, looks or wardrobe. It is his spirit that will set the submissive free to live out her truth.
He does not demand; he inspires. He does not bark and punish; he teaches and leads those under his tutelage to bloom into the best form of themselves by his solid example. If by chance you are still brave enough to skate the line; his punishments will be sure but consistent. This man handles his own business and keeps his affairs private. Should you be bold enough to offend or disobey him, the quiet calm from which his dominance arises, will surely shock you back to your own side of the line he naturally but clearly draws in the sand.
I found a meme today that suits this post perfectly. Enjoy.